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River & Rebekah say...
"We are grateful for your counseling because you take your time to teach us inspiration for our marriage so that our marriage grows with the Lord. You taught us what unconditional love really means. You showed us, through the example of Jesus, that you are human, like us, and the example you used to show us was of Jesus. We now know how to have a real marriage, so ours will survive. We appreciate your wife for her patience so that you could counsel us. The power of a supportive wife is very uplifting and takes understanding beyond words. Thank you, Mrs. Higginbotham, for your support of your husband, so that he is able to touch lives, such as ours." |
Morgan says...
"We had no idea that a lifelong journey was about to begin when we first brought our son to meet with Lee in January 2015. At nine years old, our son was struggling with some anger and attention issues and a good friend referred me to Real Life Christian Counseling. At the time, I had no idea what a blessing that would be for our family! Now, almost ten years later, our son is about to graduate from high school and we couldn’t have gotten here without Lee’s ministry and God’s grace! The sessions were never like traditional counseling. Lee got to know our son and met him where he was (which usually involved ping pong, video games, and/or food). He spent time building an encouraging relationship based on God’s word, consistently speaking truth into our son’s life to help him deal with earthly frustrations and temptations. It was invaluable to have someone outside of our family with whom he could be completely open and honest. Lee has made him feel special and loved, like a brother. The support, guidance, and generosity provided through this ministry have been instrumental in our son’s journey and we are forever grateful! I know that Lee will continue to be a beacon of God’s light for our son as he enters this next chapter and I pray that, through his God-given gift of ministry, Lee will be able to help other children find their identities in Christ Jesus!"
"We had no idea that a lifelong journey was about to begin when we first brought our son to meet with Lee in January 2015. At nine years old, our son was struggling with some anger and attention issues and a good friend referred me to Real Life Christian Counseling. At the time, I had no idea what a blessing that would be for our family! Now, almost ten years later, our son is about to graduate from high school and we couldn’t have gotten here without Lee’s ministry and God’s grace! The sessions were never like traditional counseling. Lee got to know our son and met him where he was (which usually involved ping pong, video games, and/or food). He spent time building an encouraging relationship based on God’s word, consistently speaking truth into our son’s life to help him deal with earthly frustrations and temptations. It was invaluable to have someone outside of our family with whom he could be completely open and honest. Lee has made him feel special and loved, like a brother. The support, guidance, and generosity provided through this ministry have been instrumental in our son’s journey and we are forever grateful! I know that Lee will continue to be a beacon of God’s light for our son as he enters this next chapter and I pray that, through his God-given gift of ministry, Lee will be able to help other children find their identities in Christ Jesus!"
Tonya says...
"I believe when God is moving powerfully in a place, it is palatable. I felt this power from the first time I began seeking help for myself and my family at Higginbotham Ministries. Gaining an eternal perspective (2 Corinthians 4:18) more often than not is one skill that has served us well! My anxieties and fears that were trying to creep in were a huge problem. Through the ministry, God opened my eyes to verses that helped me see my attempts to control and how trusting Him completely was the root of these anxieties. I was all too often focusing on all of the tomorrow’s (Proverbs 22:6; 1 Corinthians 12:4-7; Ephesians 2:10) instead of basking in the gifts of the present moments. My relationship with God has strengthened and continues to grow through gifted moments everyday. My children are witnesses to that which is an answered prayer! Supporting this ministry fills me with peace and joy! I trust God continues to lead others closer to Him, enriching lives of those who also benefit from God’s powerful presence here."
"I believe when God is moving powerfully in a place, it is palatable. I felt this power from the first time I began seeking help for myself and my family at Higginbotham Ministries. Gaining an eternal perspective (2 Corinthians 4:18) more often than not is one skill that has served us well! My anxieties and fears that were trying to creep in were a huge problem. Through the ministry, God opened my eyes to verses that helped me see my attempts to control and how trusting Him completely was the root of these anxieties. I was all too often focusing on all of the tomorrow’s (Proverbs 22:6; 1 Corinthians 12:4-7; Ephesians 2:10) instead of basking in the gifts of the present moments. My relationship with God has strengthened and continues to grow through gifted moments everyday. My children are witnesses to that which is an answered prayer! Supporting this ministry fills me with peace and joy! I trust God continues to lead others closer to Him, enriching lives of those who also benefit from God’s powerful presence here."
D&K say...
"I started going to see Lee for help in healing from the wounds inflicted by my husband’s addiction to pornography. I had suffered alone for two years and knew it was time to get help. Lee has been a wonderful counselor, friend, cheerleader, and believer in my husband and I. We have seen him together and separately for over a year now. Lee has helped us identify the roots of our problems and emotions and directed us back to Jesus Christ every time. For me, Lee has helped me reclaim my identity in Jesus Christ. I placed a lot of identity in trying to compete with my husband’s porn, and placed my worth in whether he watched something or not. I am now on a journey of knowing my identity is solely dependent on Jesus Christ and not the actions of my husband. Lee has taught me to release control and fully surrender to the work God is trying to do in me. That has brought me freedom. Both my husband and I have learned that, “no life manifests more beauty than the one who is broken.” (Watchman Nee) We thank God for our brokenness, knowing and trusting that God WILL deliver us and bring beauty out of the brokenness. Through counseling, both my husband and I have grown closer to the Father, experienced the power of the Gospel, and grown closer together in our marriage...and we’ve gained a good friend! Thank you Lee for speaking the truth of the Gospel to us, and walking with us."
C.D. says...
Lee and I first met when my marriage was on the rocks several years ago. And while the marriage eventually ended, Lee never wavered. He was and still is there for me, honest and faith-centered in his counsel. From childhood trauma, years of anxiety and insecurities, failed relationships and divorce, I never could quite figure out how to make the connection with God. Through recent painful events and deep introspection, I finally FELT the presence of the Holy Spirit…after 45 years of doubt and uncertainty. The experience has been such a relief for me, to finally know peace from within and to know God has always been by my side. I would not have achieved this without Lee’s Christ-centered influence and support. Thank you doesn’t do it justice, but thank you! Honor and respect to you, my brother! God bless you and your ministry.
"I started going to see Lee for help in healing from the wounds inflicted by my husband’s addiction to pornography. I had suffered alone for two years and knew it was time to get help. Lee has been a wonderful counselor, friend, cheerleader, and believer in my husband and I. We have seen him together and separately for over a year now. Lee has helped us identify the roots of our problems and emotions and directed us back to Jesus Christ every time. For me, Lee has helped me reclaim my identity in Jesus Christ. I placed a lot of identity in trying to compete with my husband’s porn, and placed my worth in whether he watched something or not. I am now on a journey of knowing my identity is solely dependent on Jesus Christ and not the actions of my husband. Lee has taught me to release control and fully surrender to the work God is trying to do in me. That has brought me freedom. Both my husband and I have learned that, “no life manifests more beauty than the one who is broken.” (Watchman Nee) We thank God for our brokenness, knowing and trusting that God WILL deliver us and bring beauty out of the brokenness. Through counseling, both my husband and I have grown closer to the Father, experienced the power of the Gospel, and grown closer together in our marriage...and we’ve gained a good friend! Thank you Lee for speaking the truth of the Gospel to us, and walking with us."
C.D. says...
Lee and I first met when my marriage was on the rocks several years ago. And while the marriage eventually ended, Lee never wavered. He was and still is there for me, honest and faith-centered in his counsel. From childhood trauma, years of anxiety and insecurities, failed relationships and divorce, I never could quite figure out how to make the connection with God. Through recent painful events and deep introspection, I finally FELT the presence of the Holy Spirit…after 45 years of doubt and uncertainty. The experience has been such a relief for me, to finally know peace from within and to know God has always been by my side. I would not have achieved this without Lee’s Christ-centered influence and support. Thank you doesn’t do it justice, but thank you! Honor and respect to you, my brother! God bless you and your ministry.
Joann says...
We sought out Lee at Real Life Christian Counseling nearly a decade ago! Certainly was a blessing then and continues to be! God has used Lee's ministry in every life challenge we have had since our first meeting together! We have grown spiritually through Lee’s teachings and tools. We give glory to God for all of our blessings! Our gratitude to Lee for being a faithful servant of the Lord! God bless!
- Joann M.
We sought out Lee at Real Life Christian Counseling nearly a decade ago! Certainly was a blessing then and continues to be! God has used Lee's ministry in every life challenge we have had since our first meeting together! We have grown spiritually through Lee’s teachings and tools. We give glory to God for all of our blessings! Our gratitude to Lee for being a faithful servant of the Lord! God bless!
- Joann M.
Sharon says...
One afternoon when I was watching my daughter having fun with her friends at a local trampoline park, I realized that I wasn’t experiencing joy of seeing her so happy. I had been experiencing a great deal of sadness and fearfulness in the last couple of months. While I sat there watching my daughter play I decided to google “Christian counseling” in Lubbock. I decided to make an appointment with Lee. I knew I definitely wanted to be counseled from a Christian perspective. In the first couple of weeks I learned a great deal about my temperament and learned that I wasn’t getting my needs met in my social life. The most incredible discovery was that I wasn’t alone in the way I felt, and I felt the weight of condemnation fall off over the course of my counseling with Lee. My sessions with Lee didn’t consist of me just telling him my issues, however they were a time of mutual sharing. He would provide examples of his life where he could relate to me and that always put my mind at ease. I believe the Lord led me to Real Life Christian Counseling. There is no other explanation. HE knew I needed to talk to a person who knows about “real life” situations. I can feel the anointing the Lord has over Real Life Christian Counseling. The way I know this was that every time I opened the gate that leads to his office, I immediately sensed abundant light and peace.
One afternoon when I was watching my daughter having fun with her friends at a local trampoline park, I realized that I wasn’t experiencing joy of seeing her so happy. I had been experiencing a great deal of sadness and fearfulness in the last couple of months. While I sat there watching my daughter play I decided to google “Christian counseling” in Lubbock. I decided to make an appointment with Lee. I knew I definitely wanted to be counseled from a Christian perspective. In the first couple of weeks I learned a great deal about my temperament and learned that I wasn’t getting my needs met in my social life. The most incredible discovery was that I wasn’t alone in the way I felt, and I felt the weight of condemnation fall off over the course of my counseling with Lee. My sessions with Lee didn’t consist of me just telling him my issues, however they were a time of mutual sharing. He would provide examples of his life where he could relate to me and that always put my mind at ease. I believe the Lord led me to Real Life Christian Counseling. There is no other explanation. HE knew I needed to talk to a person who knows about “real life” situations. I can feel the anointing the Lord has over Real Life Christian Counseling. The way I know this was that every time I opened the gate that leads to his office, I immediately sensed abundant light and peace.
Crissi says...
There are no words for what Lee has done for my son and our family through his ministries. He is truly gifted in helping our children find their true potential and discovering the love of Jesus. We are so blessed to have him in our lives. Thank you Lee for all you’ve done and continue to do! May God continue to bless your ministries!
There are no words for what Lee has done for my son and our family through his ministries. He is truly gifted in helping our children find their true potential and discovering the love of Jesus. We are so blessed to have him in our lives. Thank you Lee for all you’ve done and continue to do! May God continue to bless your ministries!
Glenn says...
Lee and I have been meeting together for nearly a year. The timing of our journey together was certainly a “God thing.” Lee’s counsel met me right where I was. I was going through the most painful period of my life. Loss of family, loss of business, and a failed marriage of 38 years. It was a devastating time. The encouragement, insight, and shared reading material was very helpful in moving me forward from this dark time. Not only was the ministry helpful to me, but also to some of my family whom I referred to Lee. He has been a blessing to us all.
Lee has a heart for helping and serving people. He has been called to this service and serves with eyes of faith. The Higginbotham household lives by faith. Trusting in God’s provision from the donations of the people served. I began a monthly donation to Higginbotham Ministries then and it continues today. If Lee has served you or your family, then show your appreciation by including a monthly donation to his cause. Bless Higginbotham Ministries, and the Lord will bless you!
God is good! He and Lee have partnered to bring a healing ministry to a hurting world!
Lee and I have been meeting together for nearly a year. The timing of our journey together was certainly a “God thing.” Lee’s counsel met me right where I was. I was going through the most painful period of my life. Loss of family, loss of business, and a failed marriage of 38 years. It was a devastating time. The encouragement, insight, and shared reading material was very helpful in moving me forward from this dark time. Not only was the ministry helpful to me, but also to some of my family whom I referred to Lee. He has been a blessing to us all.
Lee has a heart for helping and serving people. He has been called to this service and serves with eyes of faith. The Higginbotham household lives by faith. Trusting in God’s provision from the donations of the people served. I began a monthly donation to Higginbotham Ministries then and it continues today. If Lee has served you or your family, then show your appreciation by including a monthly donation to his cause. Bless Higginbotham Ministries, and the Lord will bless you!
God is good! He and Lee have partnered to bring a healing ministry to a hurting world!
"A" says...
I'm honored to get to write a testimony - if you are considering working with Lee and tapping into Jesus-centered counseling services please take some time to read the other testimonials - they are so encouraging!
And that has been my experience with Lee - so encouraging. I worked with Lee regarding complicated family issues and then have worked with him on issues in my own life - I am making progress! And I love how God uses Lee to help restore clarity, help remember simple and critical truths of the Gospel (Jesus really does love me and like me!) and keep applying them tirelessly and joyfully to real life. That's a great title for his office, Real Life Christian counseling - that's exactly what I've experienced with Lee. I heard a quote recently about preparing a child for the path or preparing the path for the child. The first is about empowering the person to deal with real life, the second is about trying to change/manipulate circumstances in life "i.e. the path" to make it easier to navigate for the child/person.
I feel like with Lee God has used him in a great way to allow God to keep "preparing me for the path." I have NO idea what all lies ahead, but I increasing am growing stronger in my identity in who I am in Jesus Christ and that is all I need now in the present and to move forward. Thanks Lee - you rock, and you are super kind and caring but also real and with a hilarious personality man! That is so refreshing. I am encouraged by you. My wife and I are grateful for your ministry in my life and we are thankful to be able to donate to RLCC so that you can continue to minister to others."
I'm honored to get to write a testimony - if you are considering working with Lee and tapping into Jesus-centered counseling services please take some time to read the other testimonials - they are so encouraging!
And that has been my experience with Lee - so encouraging. I worked with Lee regarding complicated family issues and then have worked with him on issues in my own life - I am making progress! And I love how God uses Lee to help restore clarity, help remember simple and critical truths of the Gospel (Jesus really does love me and like me!) and keep applying them tirelessly and joyfully to real life. That's a great title for his office, Real Life Christian counseling - that's exactly what I've experienced with Lee. I heard a quote recently about preparing a child for the path or preparing the path for the child. The first is about empowering the person to deal with real life, the second is about trying to change/manipulate circumstances in life "i.e. the path" to make it easier to navigate for the child/person.
I feel like with Lee God has used him in a great way to allow God to keep "preparing me for the path." I have NO idea what all lies ahead, but I increasing am growing stronger in my identity in who I am in Jesus Christ and that is all I need now in the present and to move forward. Thanks Lee - you rock, and you are super kind and caring but also real and with a hilarious personality man! That is so refreshing. I am encouraged by you. My wife and I are grateful for your ministry in my life and we are thankful to be able to donate to RLCC so that you can continue to minister to others."
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Geni says...
"I believe in what you are doing to help hurting souls! You have certainly changed my life and you continue to do so! I can't thank you enough! My life is on a much better course and my heart is consumed with the Lord, like never before. I pray others will have breakthroughs under your guidance, like I have experienced. You and your family are in my daily prayers." B & M say...
"We can't tell you enough in words how much you have blessed us with your gift of pastoral care. Because of your intentional heart, we treat each other in a more Christ-like way, we understand each other's God-given personalities, we communicate more effectively, and we love more sincerely. Thank YOU for saying yes to God's plan for your life... We wouldn't be here without your friendship, love, and guidance. |
Aaron says...
"I highly recommend visiting with my friend Lee Higginbotham. He wasn't always my friend but I credit him for saving my marriage and since then he's gone from my counselor to becoming my friend. He helped me in a desperate time and got me back to the person I know I should be. Lee has a no nonsense approach to life and faith and he really knows how to ask the right questions to help you sort out whatever it is you are going through. If you are not in need of counsel at this time please consider giving to his ministry. Lee believes that his services should be free to all who need it. He's managed to keep his fees affordable so far and continues to drop the price as he is able. He also gives to those who may be in need and he wants to be able to continue to bring blessings to everyone he comes in contact with. Sometimes it's money, sometimes it's through services of others, whatever the need he tries to meet it. He truly is trying to make a difference in the city of Lubbock and I really hope that you will make it possible to do more." |
Abe says...
A few years ago I had come to a place in my life where I really needed someone to talk to. After a series of difficulties, I had exhausted many efforts to feeling better. These included medication, natural remedies and even acupuncture. I was in a desperate situation and needed to feel better. I reached out to a pastor where I occasionally attend church and asked if he would be able to recommend someone and he recommended Lee.
I remember at first how doubtful I was that I would ever feel better again since I had been suffering from severe depression for several months without any relief. It was affecting every area of my life. I travel a lot and was unable to do regular sessions. However, after the first visit Lee helped me to finally see a glimpse of hope. I immediately noticed how patient he was and not surprised at how I was feeling. That gave me a sense of confidence and peace that I hadn’t felt in awhile.
I own a very successful business and have a beautiful loving wife and 3 children so I recall how selfish I felt that I could not find any joy in anything. I am a man of faith and have attended church my entire life so I knew that God could heal me if he wanted to. But, after such a long time feeling so desperately low, I began to doubt that God wanted to heal me. I began to think I was receiving some sort of punishment. I had lost hope.
Looking back I can now see how far I’ve come since my first appointment with Lee. Even though I felt great after each session my old thought patterns resumed almost immediately after each session and no matter how hard I tried, I didn’t realize that I would have to endure another 3 years of suffering. I appreciate that Lee did not promise immediate results and thankful for his patience with me!
I believe in my heart that God used Lee to help me realize His unconditional love for me and to help me develop a new way of thinking and that healing isn’t always immediate.
I still struggle with depression at times but it is no longer something I live with all the time. Thank you Lee for being patient with me and helping me see God’s immense love for me exactly the way I am.
A few years ago I had come to a place in my life where I really needed someone to talk to. After a series of difficulties, I had exhausted many efforts to feeling better. These included medication, natural remedies and even acupuncture. I was in a desperate situation and needed to feel better. I reached out to a pastor where I occasionally attend church and asked if he would be able to recommend someone and he recommended Lee.
I remember at first how doubtful I was that I would ever feel better again since I had been suffering from severe depression for several months without any relief. It was affecting every area of my life. I travel a lot and was unable to do regular sessions. However, after the first visit Lee helped me to finally see a glimpse of hope. I immediately noticed how patient he was and not surprised at how I was feeling. That gave me a sense of confidence and peace that I hadn’t felt in awhile.
I own a very successful business and have a beautiful loving wife and 3 children so I recall how selfish I felt that I could not find any joy in anything. I am a man of faith and have attended church my entire life so I knew that God could heal me if he wanted to. But, after such a long time feeling so desperately low, I began to doubt that God wanted to heal me. I began to think I was receiving some sort of punishment. I had lost hope.
Looking back I can now see how far I’ve come since my first appointment with Lee. Even though I felt great after each session my old thought patterns resumed almost immediately after each session and no matter how hard I tried, I didn’t realize that I would have to endure another 3 years of suffering. I appreciate that Lee did not promise immediate results and thankful for his patience with me!
I believe in my heart that God used Lee to help me realize His unconditional love for me and to help me develop a new way of thinking and that healing isn’t always immediate.
I still struggle with depression at times but it is no longer something I live with all the time. Thank you Lee for being patient with me and helping me see God’s immense love for me exactly the way I am.
